Scripts at a glance

I check messages about the children each evening and will reply then. If something is urgent, please call.

To keep things clear, could we use email for arrangements about the children from now on? I'll keep messages short.

To keep things settled for Ella, could we agree changes at least 48 hours ahead unless there's an emergency? I'll do the same.

That doesn't work for me this weekend. I can do Sunday morning instead if that helps.

I'd rather keep these messages to arrangements for the children. On Saturday, I'll collect at 10am as planned.

Let's pick this up later. I'll take Jack now and drop him back at 6.

The last two handovers have started later than agreed, and Mia has been upset waiting. Can we stick to 5pm, or agree a new time?

I was at school at 3.15pm as agreed and Leo wasn't collected from me. Please let me know when I'll next see him.

Answer only the practical question. Don't reply to the criticism.

Would you like to do a joint birthday tea for Sophie this year, or would two smaller ones work better?

I wanted to let you know I've been seeing someone for a few months. I'm planning to introduce her to the children briefly next month.

I'd like to take the children to Spain from 2 to 9 August. I'll send the flight details, address and a contact number. Can you confirm in writing that you consent?

Mum and I decided we can't live together any more. That's a grown-up decision and it's not because of anything you did. We both love you.

I'm sorry you heard that. Grown-ups sometimes say things when they're upset. I love you, and I'm always here.

I appreciate you asking. I'd rather not go over the separation, but I'd love to talk about anything else.

Things have been tough lately. Fancy a pint or a walk this week?